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Bali in winter, Paris in April. How “bucket lists” for travel assist cancer patients in dealing with life and death

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Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman portray two prominent characters in the 2007 movie The Bucket List who refuse experimental therapy after learning they have terminal cancer. Rather, they go on a series of adventurous, high-energy trips abroad. The phrase “bucket list,” which refers to a list of goals or experiences you want to accomplish before you “kick the bucket” or pass away, has since gained popularity. You might read about the 100 Australian travel experiences on a bucket list or the seven cities you should see before you die.

However, there is a more sombre aspect to the concept of bucket lists. Remorse for things said or done wrong is one of the main causes of misery at the end of life. Therefore, making a bucket list might act as insurance against this regret.

When a life-limiting illness is diagnosed, the bucket list quest for experiences, memories, and significance takes on a life of its own.

In a research that was released last week, we conducted interviews with 54 cancer patients as well as 28 members of their social networks. Travel was a major item on the bucket lists of many.

Why is travel such a big deal?

There are several reasons why our conceptions of a “life well-lived” revolve so heavily around travel. Travel is frequently associated with significant life turning points, such as the young gap year, the Eat Pray Love (2010) film’s journey to self-discovery, or the archetypal “grey nomad” persona.

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Travel is important for reasons beyond the final destination or even the route taken. For several individuals, organising the trip is as crucial. A cancer diagnosis challenges a person’s feeling of agency over their life, making it difficult for them to design the trip of a lifetime or craft their own narrative.

The newly retired spouse of a cancer patient, Mark, informed us of their postponed holiday itinerary:

We’re just at that stage of life when we were planning to hop in the caravan, go on the big trip, and do all this kind of stuff, but right now, those plans are simply sitting on the shed’s blocks.

Others felt compelled to “tick things off” their bucket list as soon as they received a cancer diagnosis. Asha, a breast cancer patient, told us that although she had always been motivated to “get things done,” receiving the diagnosis made this worse:

As a result, I had to travel extensively and cross everything off my bucket list, which has somewhat turned my girlfriend off.

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Dreams of travel included driving a caravan across the Nullarbor Plain, going whale watching in Queensland, seeing polar bears in the Arctic, and skiing in Switzerland.

Nadia, who was 38 years old when we met with her, stated that despite her health issues, travelling with her family had allowed her to create priceless memories and given her a sense of energy. Rather than waiting for retirement, she told us that receiving a cancer diagnosis had allowed her to live life to the fullest:

I believe that over the past three years, I have lived longer than many eighty-year-olds.

However, travel is costly.

Naturally, travel is costly. The billionaire status of Nicholson’s character in The Bucket List is not accidental.

Some of the folks we met with had completely depleted their funds because they thought they wouldn’t need to pay for retirement or elderly care. Others have fulfilled their lifelong ambitions through insurance settlements or charitable donations.

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However, not everyone is capable of doing this. Jim, a sixty-year-old man whose spouse was given a cancer diagnosis, informed us:

In fact, we recently purchased a new vehicle and have been discussing purchasing a new caravan. I must go to work, though. Though never mind, it would be lovely if there was a small money tree out back.

Not every person had pricey items on their bucket list. Some made the decision to buy a pet, start a new pastime, or spend more time with loved ones.

According to our research, creating plans to cross things off a list might help people feel hopeful about the future and in control of their lives. It was a means of regaining control over a condition that might make individuals feel helpless. Asha stated:

I refuse to let this illness rule me. I’m not going to do nothing except sit motionless. I’d want to take a trip.

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Something we’should have’ done?

Additionally, bucket lists are a sign of a larger society that prioritises production and ostentatious spending, even in the latter stages of life.

People have in fact informed us that flying may be costly, unpleasant, and exhausting—especially if they are simultaneously dealing with treatment-related symptoms and side effects. Travelling, though, seemed like something they “ought” to do.

Our findings revealed that travel can have profound significance. But living a life well doesn’t have to be ostentatious or daring. Discovering purpose in life is an incredibly personal process.

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Do you enjoy being at the beach? Visit these stunning Indian seaside locations this winter.

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Are you a beach person? This winter, travel to these gorgeous coastal destinations in India
Beat the winter chill by heading over to these coastal places that are perfect for all your ‘beach person’ needs.

Winter is not everyone’s cup of tea. Snuggling in warm blankets and sipping on hot beverages may not appeal to the ‘beach people’. These are the people who ardently crave sunny days, sand under their feet, and waves lapping at their toes. This winter, escape to coastal destinations and enjoy a quaint cold season basking under the sun. Here are some coastal places you can visit to take a break from the bitter winter and embrace all things sweet and sunny.

Puducherry’s lovely French colonial charm will sweep you off your feet! The winter months bring pleasant and soothing weather, making it the perfect time to explore this amazing, coastal gem. Stroll or cycle through its quaint streets and marvel at the beautiful colonial architecture adorned with vibrant colours and bougainvillea-lined walls. Head over to Paradise Beach and relax. If you’re looking for a breather that blends the beautiful aesthetics of old-world charm with the serenity of pristine beaches, Puducherry is your go-to place. Don’t forget to try their dishes that have both a French and South Indian touch.

Andaman and Nicobar Islands
No Indian tropical vacation list is complete without the mention of the Andaman and Nicobar Islands. This ultimate destination is a paradise for water sports enthusiasts with a myriad of activities like snorkelling, and scuba diving to admire the marine underwater life. If adventure isn’t your style, simply chill and admire the beauty of the azure ocean and lush greenery from the comfort of your hammock. Don’t miss the chance to go island hopping and discover hidden gems like Havelock Island, Neil Island, and Ross Island, each treasuring breathtaking beaches. Try scrumptious seafood delicacies from fresh morning catches that will have you coming back for more.

Puri
If you are looking for a more spiritual winter gateway, head to Puri in Odisha. Visit the holy Lord Jagannath temple and pray. Don’t forget to try the divine prasad. Then head to the beach in the evening. You can also go to Chilika Lake, an hour or so away from Puri. It is a water lagoon that’s popular for boat riding and birdwatching. In fact, it is Asia’s largest brackish water lagoon. During winter, it becomes a sanctuary for a myriad of migratory birds, making it a must-visit for nature enthusiasts.

Gokarna
Another spiritual winter getaway, Gokarna in Karnataka, is a revered Hindu pilgrimage destination known for its tranquil beaches and ancient temples. Start your visit with the Mahabaleshwar Temple, dedicated to Lord Shiva, which attracts devotees from all over the country. Then unwind at Om Beach which has a distinctive shape resembling the sacred Om symbol.

Goa
For beach lovers, Goa will always remain in the heart and soul. From its epic nightlife scenes thrilling beach sports to calming bike rides and beach walks, Goa is an evergreen winter getaway. Indulge in authentic Goan cuisine and marvel at the Portuguese-inspired architecture that adds a unique charm to this coastal paradise. This time explore Goa on a scooter, doing off-beat things. Goa feels like the comfort food that always makes you want to keep coming back.

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Germany’s tourism industry is predicted to soar in the wake of the 2024 FIFA Euro.

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The Ifo institute predicted on Friday that overseas visitors to Germany, the host nation for Euro 2024, would enhance the country’s economy by 1 billion euros ($1.07 billion).

According to Germany’s leading economic research institute, the accommodation and food retail sectors stand to gain the most from the games. This equates to approximately 0.1% of the country’s economic production in the second quarter of the year.

“However, the effect is only short-lived, so that exports of services due to returning tourists are likely to fall again after the end of the European Championship in the third quarter and remain the same on balance,” Gerome Wolf, an Ifo researcher, stated.

The institute estimated that during the championship, more than 600,000 foreign visitors and 1.5 million additional overnight stays are anticipated, based on data from the FIFA World Cup that Germany hosted in 2006.

In addition, the German Economy Ministry anticipates a brief rebound in consumer-facing industries following extremely low retail sales this year—though not to the same degree as during the World Cup in 2006.

Experts concur that the German national team’s performance in the competition will also have an impact on the Euro 2024’s overall impact on the greatest economy in Europe.

On Friday evening, the competition will begin with their matchup versus Scotland.

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The development of Japanese snack bars from red-light districts to tourist destinations

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Up steep steps, down a brightly signposted street in Tokyo, and behind a windowless door sits a “snack bar” that locals have long loved but has been closed to visitors—until recently. Snack bars are warm, nostalgic places that can be found all over Japan. They are frequently jam-packed into tiny spaces and have karaoke machines that reverberate long into the night. Usually, a lady known by the moniker “mama” runs them and engages in small talk with patrons while serving drinks and little bites like dried squid, almonds, or modest cooked meals.

Though the little, hidden pubs have been a mainstay of Japanese nightlife since the post-war era, their narrow layout can be daunting, particularly to foreign visitors. A company, thus, provides guided excursions to snack bars in the capital’s Shimbashi business sector, such as Kuriyakko. A family of Americans is heard singing “Hey Jude” and “Take Me Home, Country Roads” while a poster depicting art deco is warmly illuminated by soft lights that bounce off the red wall tiles inside.

After viewing the trip on Instagram, Nora, who had lived in Japan, told AFP that she made reservations for her parents, sister, aunt, and uncle. “I’ve always seen the signs for snack bars, but I wasn’t sure of how to enter them, or what to do,” the 30-year-old stated. She did not want her last name to be made public and is currently based in San Francisco. “My family hasn’t really been in Japan very often, so it was a good opportunity to get a real experience of the bar culture” in a “jovial” yet “intimate” manner. A tour guide from Snack Yokocho shows the party how to say “cheers” in Japanese, “kanpai!” and how to order whiskey highballs and plum wine.

Roots of red light
“Mama” Kuri Awaji, who has been running Kuriyakko for 25 years, stands behind the bar wearing a sophisticated pastel kimono and wearing her hair up in a traditional manner. This snack bar is one of about 100,000 in Japan, according to Snack Yokocho, and some have a male “master” despite the majority being owned by women. With an emphasis on convivial discussion, the ambiance at snack bars is less sexually charged than at contemporary host and hostess clubs, although its origins may be traced back to Japan’s red-light districts.

According to Snack Yokocho spokesperson Mayuko Igarashi, several women turned to sex work after World War II in order to live, but anti-prostitution legislation were established around the time of the 1964 Olympics. They thus “took a simple wooden box to the regular street and served drinks and snacks” in order to generate income. These early snack restaurants gradually relocated indoors to smaller spaces that the women could run without needing to make elaborate food.

As per Igarashi, a lot of them were divorced and parenting their kids by themselves, which is why they were called “mama”. “It was difficult for them to work during the day when the children were around, so after they went to bed, women stood at the counter to work in the evening,” she continued.

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In person
According to Igarashi, there were 200,000 snack bars in Japan in the 1950s and 60s, but as the “mama” retire or sell up, the number has decreased. Snack Yokocho reports that interest in their excursions is rising as a result of the record number of visitors to Japan. In addition to well-known locations like Kuriyakko, the company’s tour guides take guests to snack bars with unique themes, like a golf bar featuring an artificial putting green.

It also occasionally arranges excursions for Japanese ladies who are interested in learning about the culture of snack bars but are hesitant to knock on a closed door by themselves. Igarashi claimed that practically all of the patrons of the bars were guys for a long time. However, snack bars have evolved a “place for them to relax, or talk to ‘mama’ about their problems”.

Social media is where people chat a lot, but nothing matches in-person conversation after a difficult day, the speaker continued. “At a snack bar, people can look into each others’ eyes, and get to know each other very quickly — even strangers.”

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